I just read a post that reminded me of a similar post here when Dear
Myne just started, of a newly wedded wife who had pains each time she
tried to have sex with the husband. Check it out, [Dear Myne - It is Difficult to have Sex with my Husband! ]
there are loads of very informative comments. This one is about of a
young wife who is wondering if she's circumcised and if that's a reason
she does not enjoy sex with her husband of 2 years.
On the issue of circumcision and pleasure during sex, I know that even
circumcised ladies enjoy sex, so no one need worry about that. For those
who really want to know, you can put a mirror between your legs and
look at your vagina. If there is a protruding part at the top of the two
side lips, you're not circumcised.
For the lady who did not enjoy sex, I had some questions,
1. Have you ever pleasured yourself? That is the first way to know what
works for you. Use your fingers and touch yourself, no need to even put
it inside you, just play with your outer lips, and imagine you're
enjoying sex with your husband.
2. Do you guys have any foreplay before the main sex? Slow your husband
from going in immediately. Spend time kissing, on the lips, neck, ears,
back, and touching your bodies slowly, direct him to those parts that
you know you like and give you pleasure.
3. What do you think about when having sex with your husband? The brain
is the most important sex organ. If you're worrying about work, your
friends, your baby, the people in the house, how your breast sag to the
sides, or your husband's face in sex, you will be distracted. Focus on
what you like about the sex and enjoy it
4. Do you get well lubricated and wet? If not, talk to your husband and
buy a lubricant. The simplest is KY Jelly, and choose the water based
one. There are some advanced ones that also contain stuff to excite you
directly and increase your pleasure.
5. Do you read? What do you think of adult videos, or books with some
love and sex scenes. If you hate such stuff, it may be hard for you to
enjoy sex in real life. If they excite you, then watch some, or read a
book just before you have sex with your husband, it will put you in the
mood.
These are the points I could think of, did I miss anything?
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