I'm a 34 year-old lady, pretty with all the attributes needed in a woman, I'm one person any man that comes across will wish for. I'm married, the marriage is blessed with 3 kids and I'm a medical practitioner.
I got married in year 2007 to a wonderful man whom my people cherish so much. Before we got married, we agreed that we'll not have sex but as body no be firewood, we do every other thing lovers do to climax. His romance was something else. What made me get along without sex with him is that he heads me very well, wow! I was like " if na only this one, I no need the penetration".
Two days after our traditional wedding, the heat was so much that we couldn't wait for the white wedding anymore to get it done to the fullest. So, after everything, we went back to the city. I noticed he keeps late night which made me cry all through the night. He woke up and saw me crying and told me that it's only hanging out at night he gets to meet with his clients to talk about business. That I should not try to come between him and his guys. He has this bound with one of his male friend that is questionable.
Hmmmm!
In the morning, I called my mum (may her soul RIP). She gave her motherly advice saying he'll still stop such life style that it's because we've just gotten married. My dear readers, I still moved on ooo with him. Then after our 2nd child, I noticed he no longer wants to make love to me not even the head he gives me that made me say YES!
I did not really flex in the university because I thought I will when I get married because I dey enjoy that thing well with someone I feel for but I still maintained my decency.
I don't believe a man will stay for 6 months without touching his woman with the excuse of stress, not meeting his target, etc. If I make any move towards him, he'll say he's tired. He knows that alcohol makes him unable to perform, it makes his penis not stand for action but he drinks always. I'm this type that if I'm horny and don't get the satisfaction from my man, I won't be happy for days even months. I know your question will be "why didn't I go to him if he doesn't come to me?" yes! I stopped going to him to make me feel like a woman because he told some of his family members that his wife is always on heat.
I just don't know what to do because I'm not happy again. It's almost 5 months and my man has not touched me and I've been so horny. So many cute guys /men are out there wishing to have me even if it's just for a drink. But I cannot! I need just my man, not that he even satisfies me but..... what can I do? All these makes me wonder if he's gay or seeing over demanding babes. I want to be happy ooo and I'm thinking of giving one sweet guy a chance ooo.
hmmmmm!
You all should please advise me. Money I NO dey get and not that the money no dey, I take care of all my needs but you need to see how he gives to others and spends in occasions even love making I no de get. I believe there will be a way out after you guys response.
Thank you.
Me thinks there is a serious bridge in communication,is there anytg u've done to cause d gap?Try a little more romancing,get down,do all u can...Goodluck
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